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The Fashion Industry Made Me A Pornstar – Contessa Doll

Meet Contessa Doll, one of Sydney’s great Fetish Femme Fatales and Pornstar, in the business of Domination.

Contessa Doll is a professional dominatrix that has also dabbled in porn over the past 2 years.
The 43 year old Sydney based Mistress states that she doesn’t really have a preference for gender or sexual identity it’s just who she happens to fall in love with and that’s why she identifies as pansexual.

What do you feel is misunderstood about the BDSM industry?

Contessa states, “we’re not all mask-wearing maniacs, we’re not all psychopaths! I think it goes a lot deeper than what is portrayed in Hollywood, there is no such thing as normal and some people do prefer something different.”

Contessa believes everyone is entitled to get their rocks off however they please and she is willing to treat their fantasy or fetish with respect. It takes a lot of courage to come see me and it’s all about consent and boundaries. Contessa states they do set a safe word and that aftercare is mandatory with every client. She believes that if people just gave the niche a chance then they would realise it’s not all about punishment, pain and abuse; that there’s so many different levels to BDSM.

Men get judged and feel that they need to hide the fact that they’re into BDSM..but if a woman says “hey i’m into BDSM” everyone’s like, oh really 😈

Men especially get judged and feel that they need to hide the fact that they’re into BDSM, however, if a woman says “hey i’m into BDSM” everyone’s like “oh yeah!”
If a man does it, suddenly, oh he’s a pervert he’s a freak oh stay away from him!

Which I think is unfair! BDSM made me understand men on a much deeper level and that’s why i’m grateful, because without the layers of ego that’s peeled away you get to see the real person.
We can openly cry to each other and women can express our feelings.

I tried doing a normal 9-5 job, I tried the housewife thing and I lost my sense of identity. I lost who I was and I love the industry. I’ll stay in the industry as long as I can I don’t know what’ll happen in the future but for now i’m happy very happy in the industry.

Men feel like they have to put on this act like they’re made out of steel and not show their emotions, that they have to strong and be able to hold it together during hard times. We’ve all had those clients that have expressed their problems to us and they don’t get to do that very often.

When I started in BDSM I was getting trained and I thought it was going to be like constant whipping and punishment, but I didn’t realise it was actually going to involve fingering or fisting men in the ass most of the time. I’m sorry guys, but admit it, you’re into it!

Every guy that comes to me and asks me for anal play thinks he’s the only one, he is not.

Recently, I was asked by a sex toy company called plastic emporium if I wanted to make a sex toy out of any part of my body and they were expecting a flesh-light or boobs or something, or my mouth.
However, I made my fist! It has an angry dark side and this is the part that you insert first when you’re fisting. When the client is warmed up, then you turn it around and use the fist side. This is the proper way so I had the mould made of my fist and it actually sold out!

BDSM isn’t something that one day you decide to buy a Honey Birdette outfit and a whip and suddenly you say “hey I’m a dominatrix”!!

Contessa says she was taught and mentored for one year while she worked as a slave and therefore she was able to be trained as a Dominatrix. Contessa wanted to know what it was like to be on the receiving end, safety can be after a few times they’ve come to see me then they’d trust Contessa to tie them up. She said she is the same as she would only allow someone she really trusted to tie her up and it may take them having a conversation realising that she is actually very down to earth with a sense of humour. You need to ask them once in a while if they are okay.

One thing men need to understand there is nothing gay about having anything in your backside

Contessa says “You can have a whole tree trunk in your ass and it’s not going to turn you gay, trust me! I believe being gay is something you’re born with”. She has found that most of her clients have been to afraid to be judged by their wives, they’re afraid to be judged by their friends and they’re afraid that they’re going to end up going even harder. She has to tell them that that’s not going to happen unless you want it bigger and heavier in there.

Stay tuned for our upcoming video where Contessa shares her top 3 tips into getting started in anal play with a partner, until then please use gloves 😉 .

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