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What Is Pegging!

A tool for unleashing repressed feminine energy?

Being a professional Dominatrix, among other things, for just over 6 years now, pegging sessions are by far the most requested. From students, tradies to high-end corporate men.
They all request a little taste of anal play.

Firstly, what is pegging?

Pegging is a sexual practice in which a woman performs anal sex on a man by penetrating his anus with a strap-on. This practice may also involve stimulating the male genitals.

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Could it be innocent curiosity that sparks one’s interest, or is it so that pornography has ignited a spark and influenced them deep within?

I question this because most clients share a similar fantasy they want to experience.

The Pegging Fantasy

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The fantasy involves taking away their ‘male pride’ and forcefully feminising them – acting out a scene they’ve seen a female actress engage in.

They then associate themselves into the role of the woman.

In our society, male usefulness can be judged by the capacity to accomplish things.

Retired men can often have prostate problems, not due to sexual frustration or inability to procreate but because they’ve centred their identity around their profession and now it’s over they feel inadequate.

These men then look for new ways to feel useful and one of those ways is by becoming a living fuck toy.

Wanting to be seen, adored, appreciated and be found useful, these particular types of men will seek this external validation by the means of risky, hardcore sex.

Many clients have expressed to me during sessions about how proud and accomplished they feel because they’ve levelled up on toy size and how useful they feel being a ‘sex object’.

It’s characteristic of very macho masculine men who are hard working and lack emotional sensitivity to have blocked out their feminine side – which is the non-professional aspect of themselves and they have no idea how to live without it.

Unconscious about their repressed feminine energy, men will endeavour to feel sexy as that’s how they perceive women to feel.

The Masculine and Feminine energies

Sex in it’s highest form is divinity in it. It bring you into total presence.

Sadly, many people of religion hold the opinion that sex is a distraction from the path of God.

This is a great misunderstanding and an massive loss for humanity.

If sex is limited to reproduction and instant gratification while the subtle energetic and spiritual functions are ignored, our life force is displaced and becomes unbalanced.

We become easily frustrated and mentally disturbed.

With Tantra, the cosmic balancing of feminine and masculine energies, yin and yang, positive and negative, dynamic and receptive, we can introduce love and spirit into our lives.

Tantra gives us new insights and a completely different version of sex.

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Could it be that porn has shaped the ideas and beliefs of femininity for these men?


Has porn programmed them to believe that femininity means wearing lingerie and taking as many cocks as possible?

Is pornography the only vague idea of femininity they’ve come across? Most of the time the answer is yes.

In tantra, the prostate is known as the sacred male G-spot.

In Taoist tradition when the prostate is touched it allows a man to dissolve into the deepest depths of his being, and with gentle stimulation allows stored emotions to be released.

Bringing balance and harmony into the body while increasing his capacity to receive sensitive pleasure.

It’s also possible, as I have seen, for the male to have a full body orgasm!

I do believe that without the clouded perception porn has possibly installed in some men, pegging is a wonderfully incredible tool of emotional expression and release that will leave a man feeling energised and with clarity of focus.

Beginners Pegging Kit

Strap On Harness

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  • Super elastic, adjustable waist, suitable for most people.
  • Perfect gift for your lover, suitable for holiday, honeymoon, and special night, etc.
  • Super soft massager for women using, perfect for you and your p-artner to enjoy together.

Überlube Luxury Lubricant

  • Unscented & Water-Friendly – Great for fun in pools, lakes, and tubs, while leaving no traces of scent, and being completely flavorless.
  • No Sticky Residue, Won’t Stain – Added Vitamin E leaving a soft, moisturized feel that dissipates across skin, with no stains on your clothing or sheets. Dissolvable lubrication that gently glides into the background of your experience so you can enjoy what matters.
  • Latex Compatible – Latex safe. Will not harbor yeast, bacteria, or mold. Free of animal products, parabens, alcohol, gluten, glycerin, scents and flavors.
  • Used In OBGYN Practices – Will not harm healthy bacteria or affect pH levels.

Slender Round Beads

  • Bring joy, pleasure and great to train for beginners
  • High-quality glass and safe durable.
  • Waterproof design and easy to clean.
  • Lovely shape design and increase the atmosphere of interest.
  • Can be heated to a suitable temperature with warm water

Slender Rod Delight 

  • Amazing work; Toy is also harnessed compatible with yet another option, not to mention the Classical, manual pleasure you can expect from this great glowing rod.
  • New sensation; The plush rubber that makes up the slim is Flexible and Soft , while still remaining firm enough to satisfy and fill you up just right. It’s also for lots of safe use.
  • Awesome design; To keep your shaft at its best, use good water-based oil, and as with any toy, wash well before and after use.
  • For experienced and beginner; FeaturesLength: 8″Insertable Length: 7″Girth: 5.75″ at largest pointWideness : 1.75″ at largest pointMaterials: Jelly Rubber (TPR)Special Features: Suction Base, Textured Surface
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SKYN Original Condoms

  • Ideal for people with latex allergies or latex sensitivity
  • Lubricated with long-lasting ultra-smooth lubricant
  • They’re soft, comfortable and incredibly sensitive. If you ever wanted to join a revolution, now’s your chance.

Nitrile Disposable Gloves

  • Box of 100 – Large-sized, comfortable extra-strong premium quality black nitrile disposable gloves that are 4 mils thick and offer incredible stretch with no tearing or pinching. See our glove sizing chart image to determine your correct glove size.
  • Snug-fitting ambidextrous gloves with textured fingertips for improved grip. These premium quality gloves are latex-free, powder-free, and safe for food handling, sanitation, home, automotive, travel, etc.
  • These superior grip gloves have bare hand sensitivity, so you can wear them when handling touchscreen phones and touch-sensitive devices. Latex-free nitrile gloves are ideal for use by those who are allergic to natural rubber.
  • Ideal for most workplaces as our personal protective gloves are worn worldwide in most common workplace environments. They are used by salon and spa professionals, food service, retailers, warehouses, offices, schools, indoors and outdoors.
  • Gloves ship from the U.S.A: Salon World Safety Brand is a division of TCP Global Corporation, a trusted worldwide company that has been in business for over 45 years.

Be sure to take a look at my other blogs for alternate ideas:
3 Ways to pleasure your lover without touching their genitals!
BUTT STUFF SECRETS – Anal play for beginners

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