A tool for unleashing repressed feminine energy?

Being a professional Dominatrix, among other things, for just over 6 years now, pegging sessions are by far the most requested. From students, tradies to high-end corporate men.
They all request a little taste of anal play.

Firstly, what is pegging?

Pegging is a sexual practice in which a woman performs anal sex on a man by penetrating his anus with a strap-on. This practice may also involve stimulating the male genitals.

Could it be innocent curiosity that sparks one’s interest, or is it so that pornography has ignited a spark and influenced them deep within?

I question this because most clients share a similar fantasy they want to experience.

The Pegging Fantasy

The fantasy involves taking away their ‘male pride’ and forcefully feminising them – acting out a scene they’ve seen a female actress engage in.

They then associate themselves into the role of the woman.

In our society, male usefulness can be judged by the capacity to accomplish things.

Retired men can often have prostate problems, not due to sexual frustration or inability to procreate but because they’ve centred their identity around their profession and now it’s over they feel inadequate.

These men then look for new ways to feel useful and one of those ways is by becoming a living fuck toy.

Wanting to be seen, adored, appreciated and be found useful, these particular types of men will seek this external validation by the means of risky, hardcore sex.

Many clients have expressed to me during sessions about how proud and accomplished they feel because they’ve levelled up on toy size and how useful they feel being a ‘sex object’.

It’s characteristic of very macho masculine men who are hard working and lack emotional sensitivity to have blocked out their feminine side – which is the non-professional aspect of themselves and they have no idea how to live without it.

Unconscious about their repressed feminine energy, men will endeavour to feel sexy as that’s how they perceive women to feel.

The Masculine and Feminine energies

Sex in it’s highest form is divinity in it. It bring you into total presence.

Sadly, many people of religion hold the opinion that sex is a distraction from the path of God.

This is a great misunderstanding and an massive loss for humanity.

If sex is limited to reproduction and instant gratification while the subtle energetic and spiritual functions are ignored, our life force is displaced and becomes unbalanced.

We become easily frustrated and mentally disturbed.

With Tantra, the cosmic balancing of feminine and masculine energies, yin and yang, positive and negative, dynamic and receptive, we can introduce love and spirit into our lives.

Tantra gives us new insights and a completely different version of sex.

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Could it be that porn has shaped the ideas and beliefs of femininity for these men?

Has porn programmed them to believe that femininity means wearing lingerie and taking as many cocks as possible?

Is pornography the only vague idea of femininity they’ve come across? Most of the time the answer is yes.

In tantra, the prostate is known as the sacred male G-spot.

In Taoist tradition when the prostate is touched it allows a man to dissolve into the deepest depths of his being, and with gentle stimulation allows stored emotions to be released.

Bringing balance and harmony into the body while increasing his capacity to receive sensitive pleasure.

It’s also possible, as I have seen, for the male to have a full body orgasm!

I do believe that without the clouded perception porn has possibly installed in some men, pegging is a wonderfully incredible tool of emotional expression and release that will leave a man feeling energised and with clarity of focus.

Beginners Pegging Kit

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