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What Is Pegging!

A tool for unleashing repressed feminine energy?

Being a professional Dominatrix, among other things, for just over 6 years now, pegging sessions are by far the most requested. From students, tradies to high-end corporate men.
They all request a little taste of anal play.

Firstly, what is pegging?

Pegging is a sexual practice in which a woman performs anal sex on a man by penetrating his anus with a strap-on. This practice may also involve stimulating the male genitals.
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Could it be innocent curiosity that sparks their interest, or is it so that pornography has ignited and influenced them deep within?

I question this because most share a similar fantasy they want to experience. The fantasy involves taking away their ‘male pride’ and forcefully feminising them – acting out a scene they’ve seen a female actress engage in, they put themselves in the role of the woman.

In our society, male usefulness can be judged by the capacity to accomplish things. Retired men can often have prostate problems, not due to sexual frustration or inability to procreate but because they’ve centred their identity around their profession and now it’s over they feel inadequate.

Many clients have expressed to me during sessions about how proud and accomplished they feel because they’ve levelled up on toy size and how useful they feel being a ‘sex object’. It’s characteristic of very macho masculine men who are hard working and lack emotional sensitivity to have blocked out their feminine side – which is the non-professional aspect of themselves and they have no idea how to live without it.

Could it be that porn has shaped the ideas and beliefs of femininity for these men? Has porn programmed them to believe that femininity means wearing lingerie and taking as many cocks as possible? Is pornography the only vague idea of femininity they’ve come across?

In tantra, the prostate is known as the sacred male G-spot. When it is touched it allows a man to dissolve into the deepest depths of his being, and with gentle stimulation allows stored emotions to be released. This brings harmony into the body and increasing his capacity to receive sensitive pleasure. It’s also possible, as I have seen, for the male to have a full body orgasm!

I do believe that without the clouded perception porn could have installed in some men, that pegging is a wonderfully incredible tool of emotional expression and release that will leave a man feeling energised and revitalised.

Be sure to take a look at my other blog for alternate ideas:
3 Ways to pleasure your lover without touching their genitals!

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